This is a question we get asked often. On kink dating sites and Fetlife groups it seems like there are way more men seeking a cuckolding relationship than there are women. Does that reflect actual statistics or are the women just not there because the environment has been hostile for them?
We believe that there are many women who would love a cuckolding relationship but don’t know that the option exists. That’s why Venus started blogging 7 years ago and has been reaching millions with her podcast as well – to reach women and let them know that this beautiful relationship is a viable option.
We also believe that up until now, the negative environment that single women have endured online has been a huge deterrent for them to want to try to find someone. In fact, the single women who we have contacted online have expressed relief that this is finally available to them and joined right away.
With that being said, we do anticipate the ratio of women to men to mirror what research has showed in the United States. Dr. Justin Lehmiller is the author of “Tell Me What You Want: The Science of Sexual Desire and How It Can Help Improve Your Sex Life,”. Dr. Lehmiller surveyed thousands of Americans and found that 58% of men and about a third of women had fantasized about cuckolding.
There are many women who are interested in cuckolding but who need to learn about it and have a safe and private place online to be able to find a partner for a loving cuckolding relationship – that’s what we work towards here.